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Okay, so here's what I consider to be a very important question which I'll put into context later on. For now, I thought it'd be interesting to read some initial reactions straight off the bat, as it were! So... Should you tithe if you're in debt?
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Given that most of us past a certain age are permanently in debt if we have a mortgage I would say yes.
I disagree. I think there's a strong argument for being a responsible steward with your money and that in certain circumstances, perhaps clearing debt is a more honouring use of your money than direct tithing. Giving can be done in other ways too. Of course, I am not talking about mortgage debt, but outstanding credit card and loan debt. It's not always appropriate, but I would definitely resist a blanket 'rule' for all people in every situation that says tithing should continue at all costs (literally).
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I tend to resist any blanket rule to be honest. And yes sometimes we will be in situations where the sensible option would be to clear a specific debt, be a good steward etc. That said tithing is one of the few areas where God specifically asks us to test Him and thus sacrificial tithing may actually get said debts paid off faster. As in all things it comes down to the heart attitude - if you are tithing because you regard it as one of the rules then you have already missed the point. What I would say is that if you are in debt then talk to someone about it - Christians against Poverty can work miracles for some people, Citizens Advice are also worth a shout. One thing that never works with debt is hoping it will all sort itself out. So in summary, nobody _has_ to tithe, but those who do generally see an effect.
No you shouldn't tithe when in debt. Nor should you tithe when you're not in debt. The whole thing becomes farcical when we start to talk about tithing as 10%. As soon as a figure is mentioned the inevitable questions of "before or after tax?", "before or after mortgage?" all come up which sounds like trying to see how little we can get away with. For someone with a big wage and few commitments (financial, not neccassarily kids and wives), 10% is going to be a piddling amount. For someone with a low paid job and loans and mortgages coming out their ears, 10% is more than they've got left after meeting repayments. So if it's a blanket 10% then no. I've always thought the woman in the temple throwing her last few pennies into the collection is a symbol of how we should give. It's not the percentage that counts, it's the heart behind it and the giving till it hurts and all you have left to trust in is Him. That said, all very noble but with a wife and kids and mortgage and loan repayments and car upkeep and insurances and a not fantastic pay packet I could not manage a financial level of 10% and still feed my family. So maybe it's just me trying to ease my conscience. But nor could I honestly say I give till it hurts. I also don't like the give to get back, prosperity type ideas round this issue.
Some interesting thoughts. I fully agree that as soon as we start tithing (or teaching about it) out of some perceived sense of duty then we've missed the point. I'd also like to join Pete in his dislike of the 'prosperity gospel'. As R. T. Kendall wrote: "let the prosperity teachers be gripped by the sovereignty of God, and see how their preaching is after that."! The angle from which I'm coming with this question is similar to Matt's I guess. If one is in debt to creditors (loans, credit cards, etc.) then, to all intents and purposes, the money isn't yours to tithe/give. And the idea of responsible stewardship is very important too. This is mostly a hypothetical question, but there is some personal experience woven into it, insofar as I am in some debt due to various mistakes I made when I was younger, but it's under control now. Just trying to be objective about it...
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Aspiring to poverty is not holiness. God says quite clearly in the Bible to test Him on tithing. There is nothing inherently evil about money - it is the LOVE of money that is the root of all evil - i.e. putting something else before God as your prime love. That said I would encourage people to tithe much as I would encourage people to pray or fast or attend church - not because they are requirements but because they generally help us in our walk with God. And while i tend to do the 10% thing I agree that there isn't any hard and fast rule other than God loves a cheerful giver. As to those who are struggling with debt, again I would say talk to people who will help you sort out a budget and repayment plans and the like - the worst thing to do is leave things as they are. I'd also bear in mind that tithing doesn't necessarily have to be money - most of the time God would actually prefer us to be giving Him time as opposed to money, indeed in this relatively affluent society I'd say time actually tends to be more valuable for people - I know it is for me, where I'd rather get a couple of extra holidays than a payrise. Again on that front (tithing time) I've most definitely found that the more time I give to God, the more effective my time seems to become.
I believe you SHOULD tithe / give when you're in debt and it's something I feel very strongly about. Here's why. There are few situations when people are in debt that are not as a result of their own choices, and if you do not give, you effectively say to the Lord that your priorities come before His, and you do not trust Him to sort things out. Your life should be arrange such that you live within your means with your giving from income coming as a 'firstfruits'. Student loan - you choose to go to university in the belief that a degree will stand you in better stead in the jobs market perhaps. However, still your choice. You could leave school and get a job. Mortgage - buy a less expensive house or rent. You have lots of kids and need a big house? You can move area to a place that is less expensive, or think before you have lots of kids. Credit card debt - destroy your credit card and use the money you have spare in your bank account. You'll spend far less. I appreciate this touches a raw nerve for a lot of people, but it's something that I think is key in our relationship with the Lord. By accepting Jesus as saviour, we trust Him with our lives. However we don't trust Him with our finances? Come on. I liked Pete's comment about the widow, and that's indicative of how we view it at our church. It's not necessarily the amount you give, but that fact that it is sacrificial giving. Those pennies were probably a huge proportion of that widow's income (anyone want to bet that she was double-tithing), so in that respect the amount is irrelevant, but the heart behind it is relevant. We have a few exceptions, generally for people who are not earning. Students for example. We won't expect them to tithe as most of them have no regular income, and money that they receive from their parents is often from a couple who tithe at their home church. The loan needs to be repaid - it's not their money. However, we still expect them to give something, even if only a few quid a month, that represents a sacrifice for them. If they're willing to spend £20, £30, £40 on a night out every Friday, but not chuck something into the collection plate, then the heart is wrong. But to sacrifice some of that money they'd otherwise spend on going out with friends, clothes, DVDs, music or gifts is right. So interestingly, we will not allow people onto the worship team unless they are committed financially, and that has to be trackable rather than us trusting them to put a few quid in the basket each week. Ok... here's how it goes. My wife and I give monthly. I'm not going to specify precise amounts as that gets into one upmanship, but it's significantly greater than a financial 10% tithe. That's before we've even considered the time we give to church, food we buy for home groups, fuel we burn driving people around etc. And we do so as an absolute. Whilst we're reasonably financially secure, we're currently trying to buy a house, and it's at times like that where tithing feels really sacrificial because if we didn't tithe, the extra money we'd save would enable us to get what we wanted easily. As it is, we're going to be walking a financial tightrope because of the two kids and a study room that we want. But the question of stopping the giving has not even come up, because the Lord asked us to give the firstfruits of our income. Anything after that is our decision. So, the money is paid via a Give As You Earn scheme through my work, and I never even see it hit my bank account. It gets paid to church before tax, so I know exactly what they're receiving, and I don't have to worry about Gift Aid declarations (incidentally, for those of you who are higher tax bracket earners, doing a GAYE scheme extends your 'standard rate' tax bands by the amount you give, so it's financially beneficial for you). Those of you who do direct debits from your bank should sign Gift Aid declarations - the church is effectively able to claim back the tax you've paid on it, and it gives them roughly an extra 25%! I've wandered a bit off topic, but my ultimate answer is don't stop giving. No, no, NO. The Lord loves a cheerful giver. Always give, and always remember to make sensible financial decisions. Go visit your local CAP centre if you're not sure what that looks like... / rant.
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Yeah, I'd agree with Pete - a tithe is an OT concept, and we're called to the (probably harder) NT view of giving regularly, cheerfully and sacrificially. And also periodically giving extra ontop of our regular giving for exceptional circumstances. I'd also agree with Joe. If you have an income (in the broadest sense of all money coming your way in a month) you should be giving some of it back to God. If you're heavily in debt this may mean that giving even a small amount will be sacrificial for you.
I'd agree with what Joe says on the whole. But I do need to say that the issues I have against a blanket 'rule' to tithing in all financial circumstances is borne out of those rare siutations when someone is in substantial debt through no fault of their own. This can happen. I know because it's happened to me. And whilst each church will run things slightly differently, I think a fair few people will find it difficult to reconcile actually tracking the giving of those in the worship team. That then becomes a slippery slope of asking why the worship team are any more special than any other serving role, and perhaps you should ensure that everybody in the church is giving? It also automatically sets up a suggestion that if you're tracking someone's giving then you are prepared to take some sort of action if they stop or change that giving. And I think that's an unecessary (perhaps even unhealthy) pressure on people. Yes, giving is a crucial part of Christian living, but it should be done for al the good reasons you state, Joe, not because the church is looking over your shoulder to make sure you do!
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Yes... just to reiterate that you need to strongly consider why you are in debt before giving and make sure that you don't get yourself into a situation where you are unable to give. So. eg. we have a financial plan down the line that considers our regular outgoing, loan payments, credit card bills etc versus our income. Church giving is the first line on there after our wages. It's stretches out for over 10 years, because in our case, we want to be able to estimate the effect on our financial situation of my wife going on maternity leave, or working part time. In our case we want to know how much we can spend on a mortgage after taking our giving and other outgoings into consideration. It's not a case of taking our desired mortgage and other outgoings into consideration, then working out what's left for our giving. If you reduce or halt your giving for a good reason, then it's the first step on a slippery slope to doing the same for a bad reason. I'd sooner not go there. The rider here is that if you have got yourself into a situation where you're completely unable to give reasonably without turning your domestic situation upside down, or a life event beyond your control - eg. you are made redundant - happens. In those circumstances, I think it's reasonable to reduce giving for the duration of the time that you need to bring things back to a sound financial footing. However, the aim should always be for giving to the Lord to come first, and i'd encourage you to work towards that if you find yourself in difficulty... CAP are a great help there. Our church tithes 20% of all of their income towards projects or ministries that do not directly benefit or go into our church's activities. Result? We're unaccountably financially stable. There are some interesting statistics around that, for example, if all church goers in the USA gave just 5% of their income, a considerable amount of poverty related problems in the world could be wiped out. Imagine if the church goers across the whole world did that. Is this a guilt trip? Probably. Considering the relative wealth that we have that others don't sometimes makes me ashamed of myself and what I take for granted. One of my responses is to make giving a priority rather than a poor 2nd place in my financial planning. I'm getting off my soapbox now... I sense you've probably understood how much of a big deal this is for me!
Joe "One, two, three, here we go..." www.myspace.com/josephhargreaves